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Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Parenting a right or a priveledge

  I have been sitting here thinking about many things in my life, friends,family , loved ones . I have gotten behind in my blogging due to life changes.

  One thing that has really gotten to me lately has been the topic of parental rights. People that say they love their children yet decide they do not want to be their other half and then use the children some of whom never actually wanted to be parents in the first place as hostages.

    If a couple is married one party can pick up and leave taking the children and many times the other half can not do much because if the law does ANYTHING at all it is considered custodial interference. In most cases regardless of who is the most fit parent the mother gets custody unless the father is military then the mother gets the screw.

  Once the parent gets custody if they choose they can cut off all contact, get cash they don't use for the children on child support or even move or withhold any contact with the child or children.

  I have friends of both genders who I know would be better for their children if they lived with them. In all those cases the mother left took the kids and decided even though they really did not want to be parents they wanted the child support and the sadist urge to hurt the other partner.

   More so for males even if the mother is abusive they will keep the children with the mother out of some type of misguided sense of the past. Both parents should at the start have equal custody not be told when the other half leaves they need to file paperwork. I have only 1 friend I know who has custody of his kids and a few more  that should because they are the better choice. In these situations the mothers I would not consider them anything other than egg donors just as I consider fathers who are abusive or decide they do not want to be parents to be sperm donors.

  Being a parent though one can never be a perfect one should not be based on doing it to get cash or revenge on someone. Having children one knows they need lots of caring and attention not just the basics which some parents would rather plead poverty and then spend that cash on their own vices. It is ideal even if the parents are not together if they both love their kids to be in their lives. If they are doing it out of spite or the want of the extra cash they think the child will bring in then they should not be having them. I know too many that when one parent decided they wanted to be free where the children suffer too much. Children thrive best in a loving household be it one parent , two parents regardless of gender.

  In the end being a parent is about being there for ones kids not to use as a pawn or as a cash cow as i know others that fake disabilities so they get checks that way.

Monday, February 24, 2014

Stylish and Comfortable Undergarments for Women & Men Review + Giveaway

Disclosure: I got this product as part of an advertorial.    I have had the honor of trying products from wearever products for the second time. I must say I love them as I can wear them under my clothes and not worry about having to bring a change of outfits. My only worry is after having leakage and having to keep wearing the same panties. While I love the protection I just wish they had removal inserts if having to wait until I was in a spot to change them out 

   Other than the normal awkwardness of buying  products like that and not being very comfortable or facing the challenge of sudden clothes changes I found Wearever products. I was lucky to be able to test out a pair of the white lacy ones this time. http://www.weareverincontinence.com/. Not only do they have many nice styles for men or women the pair I got was much more comfortable than I thought it would be. Not only are these cheaper to buy than disposable they are good for the environment. My best suggestion for myself for future purchases is to buy a larger package as 1 is just not enough for someone with asthma and my issues. I personally think the darker ones are a double bonus for that time of month in case of leakage . A good plus also is they are not any difference in thickness than normal underclothes or at least much of one to my husband's eyes. Which counts to me after being married 16 years to look good for him.

Support Ovarian Cancer National Alliance with Wearever Purchases this February
 
A portion of proceeds from sales of select Wearever products will benefit nonprofit Ovarian Cancer National Alliance this February. Wearever is partnering with the Ovarian Cancer National Alliance to raise money in support of ovarian cancer awareness and programs for women with this disease. Ovarian cancer is the fifth leading cause of cancer-related death among women and the deadliest of all gynecologic cancers.

Throughout the month of February 2014, 10 percent of proceeds from the Wearever women’s underwear line will be donated to OCNA. This includes all sizes, styles, colors and purchases in singles, three-packs and six-packs from the Wearever Women's Incontinence Panties line. To learn more, visit www.WeareverUS.com. 



a Rafflecopter giveaway I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Net 10.. More like Net 0

    I started with Net 10 phone service not quite a year ago come this February. My reasoning when I got the phone was I wanted a way for my children, their schools and anyone else needed to get in touch with us if we had to go out. The phone and the service I had gotten at the time was a great deal I believe I paid $25 for my blackberry type phone and had while down there got 200 mins a month for either $10 or $15 a month I forget .

  Then in July 2013 we moved back up to NY and for a few months I kept the same number but then noticed some places would not pick up or call back a long distance number. There popped up my first hassle with the company. I had gotten told I would need a new SIM card so they could give me a NY exchange number so I waited patiently. To my surprise when they swapped the number they forgot to give me my remaining minutes but after calling them back from another phone an internet based ones I was able to get my minutes back with a semi hassle.

   Come December time my phone started to not keep its charge. At first I thought it was the charger so I went out and bought a new charger. It showed charging yet it did not hold a charge. So I thought battery and changed that out no change. So I call Net 10 as the phone had a 1 year guarantee  on it.Then the real fun began.

  First I got told I was a bring your own phone customer even though I bought my phone from them. I describe the problem which is the charging port on the phone not working. They ask me if I tried a new charger, battery or even another outlet. I told them I even tried another house and the phone did not keep charged. I then got told to try to call them from another phone and to stand in the ROAD & FLAG DOWN CARS if needed. I got upset at that point and my husband got on the phone. We then got told WE had to buy another phone and pay to get it activated even though we had current service. We had asked them if they could do something simple like transfer the service over to another phone and they told us we had to pay to activate it and buy a SIM card.They told me this and then closed the ticket I had on Christmas because I did not get back within 12 hours because I was spending the holiday with inlaws.

   I finally get a new ticket open and them to notice hey my phone is covered they owe me a new phone. So I wait get the new phone and even though I requested the same number they gave me a new one. Their reasoning, they said I activated it from a different zip code than the last 315 number they gave me . Really? My house moved itself to a new zip code at the same address as the number it had before. So since they sent me a new phone they deactivated the old phone and the number. I get told again they will change it to the right number they just needed to send me another SIM card because they could not use the one they activated with the wrong number. So I wait and no card. I make yet another ticket to be told they sent me a SIM card but never notified me. I also had to make a payment this month and they told me to do it on the new phone because it would transfer over. I get the new SIM card and low and behold the phone I had just paid 28.88 for a months service that they had given me 2 numbers not the one I requested to be ported over got deactivated. Out of the 1000 mins I had gotten I used 40 on talk with service agents asking why they did not transfer.

  Guess what happened with the card they sent me? They said they activated it to the phone they told me they could not activated December 26th. At this point it is the 17th of January they are getting back to a ticket from December? I tell them the phone is not active and ask for a refund of my money. I get told they don't refund phone cards. I never bought a phone card it was debited off my account. I then get told again that they need to send me yet another SIM card and they are "sorry" for any problems it may cause me.

    As a mom of 4 I need a phone for them, the schools and the drs. Not to mention other important places. My father was in the hospital most of that time and his person to call having no phone was not good. I even ended up in the ER myself due to my health issues. In the end this phone company has insulted me , stole my money and left me with no phone service. I have made 12 tickets, had 4 online support chats, multiple phone calls and chats on Facebook both in message and in chat. I got insulted , given the run around and no remorse given for a problem that has lasted over a month. So my last words are if you want a phone company where you are throwing your cash down a well use NET 10. But not me not anymore . A poorer , sadder but wiser person.
  

Monday, January 6, 2014

Tailgate Bash

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Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Twas The Night Before Christmas-- New Edition

Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the houseNot a creature was stirring, not even a mouse

Lets think about this, shall we? They must live in a vacuum and have no kids as  it is never motionless in a house.

The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,In hopes that St Nicholas soon would be there

Fire hazard anyone? And do you really wanna eat something that came from where you put your feet?

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads


Kids yes one things they sleep snug but kids rarely sleep when one wants Nowadays they envision electronics in their head.
    
And on & on this goes. Its truly innocent in the ways of the world when one compares it to the reality of life

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL AND TO ALL A GOOD NIGHT

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

Ergonomic Pen.. or Ugly pens a wonder that helps you write

Disclosure: I got this product as part of an advertorial. As someone who has issues writing and having a son who has the same issue I have looked for a long time for something that could help with writing without looking completely foolish. I finally found one in a product called . These pens are great for those that issues writing. Now the pen kind of looks funny but the great thing bout them is they work. The texture of the pen looks funny but they do help with your writing.With the design of this pen it is ment to keep your hands from cramping.The reason for the texture makes it form fit and makes writing effortless. You can also refill these for a decent price and since they are gel pens the ink is nice also.I love my Uglee Pen and my son is very happy with his because being 15 he has a lot of school work that requires writing I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Monday, December 16, 2013

Cane cover review

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Product Description:
  Our fabric cane covers come in a variety of colors and designs.  They slip over the shaft of a cane with elastic holding the cover up.  The stretchy fabric makes it easy to use and fits most canes.  Machine wash and air dry.


My Review

  I have a good friend who needs to use a cane to help him move around because he has had multiple back surgeries. Now many of his canes are carved and look great by themselves but he has a few metal ones I thought he may like dressing up.

  I picked out the leopard design as I thought that was a neat looking design. I figured since it was meant for cane users it would be something simple to put on say Velcro or snaps.

  It came as a 1 piece design where one takes the cane apart and slides it on the cane after one puts it back together. The cover was much smaller than I thought and is not designed for much of any canes as it seemed to be a one size fit all type thing. My husband had issues getting it on the metal cane of my friend.

  My friend thanked me for the thought but it ended up getting more use being used as a dog toy than on his cane.

  The designs are very pretty and if one has the right type of cane like a plain wooden one this works great. I would not suggest using this with a metal cane or not standard as it would not look right.

 I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using <a href="http://www.tomoson.com/?code=BOTTOM133602eba4a9b45c15249abee61ae49d" rel="nofollow">Tomoson.com</a>. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.